Healthy people don't say things like "you don't deserve me, I can do better, your so bold, I had so many red flags with you, I should've never been with you, you make me miss my ex, you're the biggest regret, you ruined my life" Like I said some people are just angry.. Maybe he has a mood disorder? My ex would get mad at me and not talk to me for days over the stupidest ****. Like the soda.. We went to get gas and he left the soda he paid for behind. He was so mad he didn't talk to me the whole way home and for three days after. If he is to have an issue with your relationship the healthy thing to do would be to sit you down and talk about it not yell and verbally abuse you. Is the only reason you think its your fault because he is telling you it is? or did you do something specific that you truly believe was wrong?