I just thought of something ..... I have been with my husband for about 8 years now.

His mind games (which I strongly agree with) seem to stem from never wanting to be wrong (or even believing he can actually be wrong), but I don't feel (in my heart) that he is trying (or realising perhaps?) that this might be emotional abuse. ( Previous husband physically, mentally and emotionally abused me to a great extent) and he is good to me 99% of the time

Am I making sense?