Sounds like something is going on with him. Maybe depression or stress...I do not know...or is he getting his needs met in other ways that do not include you.
As they say "it's not you". Both of you hopefully can have a discussion with honesty as to why the passion is no longer between you. Never sure what it could be. See if he is willing to help make it better.
Frankly... I would never accept someone calling me degrading names.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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