ace333....I'm sorry, so sorry but I have to agree with elektra...given the posts we've been reading, he doesn't seem to treat you well at all, and while I know just 'getting a new bf' is a LOT more difficult than it sounds...I do think you deserve someone who wants you, and respects you and has an interest is having a growing relationship with you...not a stagnant, hurtful one. You deserve so much better than him, and while I know you've asked different questions trying to fix YOURSELF because of how he treats you...IMO, it's not YOU that needs fixing.

And since expecting someone to change never works (if it did, I doubt you'd be posting the things you have about him)...you might want to seriously consider moving on.

I'm sorry. I wish you well...