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Old Jul 12, 2014, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted by kaliope View Post
cant you just tell yourself he wouldn't be with you if he didn't like you?

I would have to know more about you. are you a people pleaser? are you doing all kinds of things for him that you think he is only staying around for the things that you do? if so, then stop doing so much. stop complimenting him, stop taking care of him and see if he is still into you.
Generally I am a people pleaser. I like to give gifts and complements. With him I have not done this. He doesn't complement me but he takes care of me in little ways. Brings me a water, or serves me food first when we are eating together. Little things like that. He is also always offering advice when I have a problem. I think these little things shows that he likes me but still part of me worries he is only doing it because he is a good guy, but that he still does not have feelings for me. Everyone who knows him likes him, he never says a bad thing about anyone. I am truly falling for him. I can't think of a single bad thing other than he doesn't say how he feels about me. And maybe that I wish he would text me more or call, but he hates the phone and won't even call to order a pizza.. So maybe I am just over analyzing. I am trying to relax because I care and don't want to push him away, but I also don't want to be hurt and look like a fool.
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