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Originally Posted by NowhereUSA
well there wouldn't be one. i'd just go. it let's me not have to deal with all the goodbyes i've said. i have so much grief there that every time i have to say goodbye, i end up sobbing for all the goodbyes. so i just don't say them anymore. i just leave. so maybe safety? control? power?
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For me I think it's the fact that I want it to be over asap maybe... When I know that a goodbye is coming up, I'd rather leave immediately.
I read somewhere (an article from a therapist) that a lot of clients don't show up for their last sessions anymore. So it seems to be quite common though.
So for me, maybe it's simply about choosing the 'short pain'. Waiting for something you know will happen anyway is just... terrible!
(I'm waiting for a surgery and painful recovery and I'd rather have it here and now...
guess it's quite similar, hehe).