I took the little quiz on the 5 love languages page and scored highest on words of affection. I would agree that I need to hear that I am cared about but unfortunately he doesn't say these words. He does show through little things that he cares. However I have been in other relationships where the guy said I love you a lot but never did anything that was affectionate. he hated to cuddle etc. I guess I rather have the actions and not the words but both are important to me. Yesterday I asked about being on the same page and he said he didn't think that far ahead and takes things day by day. I guess I just wanted to know if he just wants FWB but I didn't get that part out. Maybe he thought I was thinking about marriage? I have no idea… Im very scared to talk because of fear of being hurt. I have been abandoned a lot in my life and its a big fear of mine. Thanks for the info on the 5 languages of love.