We have talked about it a little. I have told T that I think she will just leave me, to which she replies that unless something unforeseen happens she isn't going anywhere. I told her I feel like being obnoxious, and she really got it, her reply was: so if you act like that then I'll tell you to get out? I said yes!, and she said no, I don't work like that.
I don't know how to bring it up again, I don't know if talking about it over and over would help??