of course you can use it (thats why i gave it to you). sometimes it can be hard to know what to say... it can help a bit if we have some examples and then can tweak them into something we might possibly be able to say...

yeah, you never know what might come up... i'm fairly sure my t was all full up. he works a couple days a week in the community doing DBT and the rest in private practice. he had no idea why i was referred to him, but he saw me in the community so i guess he thought it might have been because of his involvement with the dbt program. maybe... he would have put me on the wait list to see a clinician to do dbt or something like that... but after talking to him he found a slot for me 8am friday. thats why i worry a bit that if i'm not DID then he would have only agreed to see me under false pretenses. i've asked him whether he would still work with me if i was borderline and not DID and he was like 'of course, i agreed to work with YOU' but i guess i was still thinking that he might change his mind if he only agreed because of a false conception of who i was... i dunno.

so he really was full... i don't know how he has managed to give me that extra time slot every two weeks. i guess your t will weigh the pros and cons with respect to how much he thinks you will benefit from more sessions (if more become available) vs picking up another client. dunno. but if you don't register an interest then i guess its unlikely that he will offer more...