Thank you- it does help to look at it that way- protecting them. At the same time, I find myself withholding much of my life sometimes because I just don't want to be judged. By this I mean political views, going out with friends seperate from husband, staying up late, dreams, fears, etc. I just wish I felt strong enough to say, "Hey, this is me- I'm proud of who I am and who my husband is, and I hope you are too!"

Some people are so strong and wise- I just wonder how one gets to that point. How do people gain confidence?

Anyways, thanks again-