I see the 2 points about generalizations. You're right I was just in a bad mood, but I still feel awful about the incident, no matter how much he tries to make up for it. I know he is sorry, he seems to be an awesome guy, and I feel awful that I feel badly still about what he said. Bt there are some things that concern me. He does talk about the sexual aspects of his former gfs, they may have been lousy lays, but that means that if I am bad, he'll know...........and maybe it would affect the relationship. I dunno, maybe it's just me and my insecurities.