Thread: Do you need to feel guilty?
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Old Jul 13, 2014, 09:52 AM
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Exactly, but that's the point, you will never go there AGAIN, I will never go there period. I've lost it before I've even had it.

You will find your own way in the "journey" of your life. I always thought I was missing out because I did not marry or have children. I ended up getting married in my late 30s. I thought I was missing out on something. Found out I was not. I do not regret the experience - and learned about what I really value about myself and my life.

It took awhile but I live by my own standards not what others or society inflicted on me. I did not know that at 25 yrs old. Work on your own way.
You will meet others that share your same interests and struggles.
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