hi ecara
it sounds like he has some mental health issues. staying with him means you will always be on this emotional roller coaster and you will never understand what you have done as he pushes you away and pulls you back again. because it isn't about you. it is all about him being unstable. is this really what you want for your future? welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome