Hello again!

what would you have done if this were you?

i started a new job just over a year ago, i needed a change and this one was welcome. As I just found out I was pregnant as well.

I am very friendly by nature and ppl always misread this to be flirtatious. A colleague of mine (much older, could even be my father) we were always the first to arrive at work, took this time to have our coffee and sandwiches together…

After about 2 months – he started hugging me, the kissing in my neck, rubbing my hair, the “oh baby, babes” calling started! etc...i explained to him on several occasions that i did not think it was appropriate to being doing so, as i am married and i am Muslim as well. I then went to my superior and told him about his. just to get clarity and to let him know what is happening. He then asked me should he lay a sexual harassment charge against this person, i said no. i will have another chat to him. My superior then explained to me that this is not the first time someone has come to him about this guy and told him about his “over friendly nature” he always apologised to the person and said it will never happen again!

A few days later the chat happened. i then told him, i respect him as a colleague and a friend and i dont want our friendship to be soured by what i have to say....

he then apologised for his behaviour and said nothing will dampen our friendship.

this happened over a month ago and to this very day he is still not talking to me - greets me and slams his door (which is directly opposite me)

i would like to tell him to stop acting childish and stop sulking as this is not the first time this happened with him. next time his apology will not be taken so lightly
!!!