please be careful if you are dating men you met online that are from foreign countries. they typically want money and/or a visa and will pull out all the stops trying to convince you they are really in love with you. never send any money to these guys. ever. some carry this charade on for years as they are desperate to leave their countries. this recently happened to a neighbor of mine. she's in her late 60s and was dating a guy in his mid-20s from morocco. it was all a marriage visa scam so he could come to the US. people tried to warn her but she fell for his b.s. these men know who to target who will likely fall for their scam. if you google this you will find lots of info on it.