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Originally Posted by RTerroni
I'm not so sure about this, the way I see it I can't see why a Therapist wouldn't want to have a chat with me in public (especially since they are supposed to help me with my social skills) and yes if a Therapist decides to run off because of me I think that it will mean the end of my Therapeutic relationship with her.
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Because you are not your T's friend. She can help you with social skills
inside your therapy hour. If she doesn't engage in a chat with you in public, you shouldn't feel dismissed or rejected (i.e., she is not "running away from you.") Most likely it's about maintaining her own personal boundaries as well as ethics, and she has her own life she is living outside of her office.
If you continue to push your agenda regarding a very hypothetical situation onto every T you meet with, I think you are going to lose out on a T who could possibly be very good for you.