Seems like you fall in a similar camp, either tricked yourself or are too dumb to realize what you're actually doing. Idk you, so idk which one it is.

Its one thing to profess you don't care about anyone ( I get that I do, its cool with me) but its a whole different can of worms when an intelligent being claims they cannot fathom how or why their actions affect others, and in sometimes hurtful ways. And no, physical is not the only hurt people experience. If a child can choose to react in such a way as not to negatively impact the child next to them, tell me how an intelligent adult cannot understand this concept? How an adult defends their choices at the expense of someone else, yet claims they don't understand why the next person's expense should matter to them in the first place?

Actually that's rhetorical, I'm not interested in an answer.

I think BeteNoire got it wrong, its not explaining colour to a blind man, its convincing a blind man that colour exists...

The world would have gone to hell by now if you were correct and none of us on this planet had any consideration for our fellow men.

To the OP, Who am I? I've not quite been able to pin her down, because she's always been quite fluid. But whoever she is, I'm me all the time, I don't hide, maybe my shame gland broke idk. Yes, the dangerous part of me I'm better at keeping leashed (its a must, I'm way too pretty for jail) but I don't bother to hide her either. People in my life accept me as is, and as long as how I am is not negatively impacting my daughter, bf or other people closest to me, then I see no reason to hide any of me.