I understand my living my life can hurt others. But I advise them to walk away. I don't hold anyone hostage. Look out for yourself because no one else will. I certainly won't. And I am a loner as was my mom. I don't crave socialization. I'm actually shy. I don't mind people removing themselves from my life. It makes life simpler anyhow. And I'm not tricking anyone. I am just being honest.
If you put your life in other's hands it's going to be a pretty ****ed up life. I don't really want to argue but that's the truth. I always think it's best to trust oneself not depend on other people's mercy and kindness. Because many people have none of it. And it makes one look entitled to expect to be treated a certain way by everyone very unhealthy thinking and disposition. When people would attempt to treat me poorly in relationships I always took responsibility in leaving. It's on me to protect myself not them. That's how I see things that's just me. These are obvious things people are taught in life. I am not trying to offend. I was just trying to be myself... Explain how I thought. How I live my life.... I thought that was what this thread was about... Take it or leave it. I am who I am.
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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
Seems like you fall in a similar camp, either tricked yourself or are too dumb to realize what you're actually doing. Idk you, so idk which one it is.
Its one thing to profess you don't care about anyone ( I get that I do, its cool with me) but its a whole different can of worms when an intelligent being claims they cannot fathom how or why their actions affect others, and in sometimes hurtful ways. And no, physical is not the only hurt people experience. If a child can choose to react in such a way as not to negatively impact the child next to them, tell me how an intelligent adult cannot understand this concept? How an adult defends their choices at the expense of someone else, yet claims they don't understand why the next person's expense should matter to them in the first place?
Actually that's rhetorical, I'm not interested in an answer.
I think Betenoire got it wrong, its not explaining colour to a blind man, its convincing a blind man that colour exists...
The world would have gone to hell by now if you were correct and none of us on this planet had any consideration for our fellow men.
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