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Old Jul 14, 2014, 06:44 AM
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You do not deserve it. Sometimes the "outside" is not always "apealing" to others...consider someone very over weight or someone that...for whatever reason does not have a nice face or very tall or very short, blind or in a wheelchair. Anyone can work toward meaning...everyone has their insecurities. There will be people that come to understand "who you are". I do not have many close friends but I do have a few. That is what is important. These friendships took time to develop.

Tell me the things you like about yourself.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany

“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge