I find seeing two helps me because it is like my own little experiment and I can keep track of it. They seem to have no structure (and the first one I see, because she likes to torment me has told me she has no structure) so I made one up and I see how it works with both. The first one fails quite a bit which saddens me because I hate to think I chose a stupid one. I brighten up when I consider that she may well not be stupid but simply a wily ***** who is messing with me so I must become even more vigilant.
I am INTP so perhaps the difference in P and J makes that sort of thing more fun for me.