I'm having the same problem. I'm finding myself way too emotionally involved with my T. Rather than discuss it (as I feel like we have in the past), I'm just trying to get past it. Unfortunately for me, this means pulling back emotionally and even shutting him out. I'm very black and white. There's no in between for me. It's either be present, and let him in, or shut him out. I've considered stopping therapy altogether, as I have no way to be honest with him about this without appearing needy. I feel that we've discussed my feelings for him (romantic or otherwise) too many damn times, and there's nothing that he can do to make me feel he cares, without him breaking boundaries. I don't want him to break boundaries, so it's basically up to me now to get through this on my own.

Again, I wish I could express this, but there is just no way. I don't have a lot of advice for you, as I am in a similar situation. However, I am making an appointment with another T to talk about my relationship with this one. I'm not ditching the other quite yet...I just want to discuss all of the feelings I have bottled up. There's a lot going on, and until I find an outlet, I'm gonna be miserable. Maybe you can do the same? Even it's just for a session or two? I'm doing it because I want to know whether my feelings are unreasonable, and am hoping another professional can help shed light on that, and how to proceed from here.

*hugs* Hang in there. It's difficult, I know.