Don't get caught up in his game. The Verbally Abusive Relationship is a book which I feel should be read by everyone on the planet.

Simply stay away from him; sounds easy and I know he will continue to beg, plead, etc., etc.....see a therapist, if you need help getting away. He is controlling, manipulative and excruciatingly INsecure and will continue to test and play mental games with you. This is also called, "gaslighting." Get help to get out.

I stayed for 31 years with a controller/abuser; I wish I had the knowledge back then.