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Old Jul 14, 2014, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Notagooduser View Post
Hi
So, I have this big doubt. I think I am bisexual or gay. I do normally look to boys and stuff but now,girls seem interesting too. And I'm kinda freaking out, I scared about these new feeling. Can anyone help me?
I'm sure this is scary for you, Notagooduser. But it's okay. I take it you are a young person in that you are a student. If so, perhaps you're just now beginning to explore your sexuality. It's not the least bit unusual, particularly for teenagers & young adults to question their sexual preferences. (In reality it's not that unusual for older folks too.)

And also, there's really nothing to be scared about anyway. There are many resting points along the spectrum of sexual orientation from male to female. Wherever you ultimately land, along that spectrum, is fine. The only real problem comes in if you're uncomfortable with where you see yourself heading. In that case, you may want to seek out the services of a therapist who can help you sort through your feelings.

So I would suggest that you simply relax, pay "interested attention" to your thoughts & feelings, & see how things develop. If you find yourself continuing to feel scared or otherwise concerned, seek out a therapist with whom you can discuss your feelings. And also keep posting here on PC. It can help! My best wishes to you!