Being a different sexuality to the one you originally thought doesn't mean you'll morph into someone else - or that you now have something 'extra,' you're just...you I agree it's hard when there's different degrees of acceptance and ever changing social standings but A LOT of people are not straight. A lot. And generally attitudes are changing for the better. It may not be happening very fast and the world will never be idiot free but i guess i'm happier being bi now than i would if i was stuck say...20/30 years in the past. You're more than a sexuality or a load of stereotypes, we all are