I have come to believe that no one is exclusively heterosexual or homosexual. I am certainly heterosexual for the most part, and have a good sexual relationship with my wife, but I also get turned on looking at male porn. I fantasize about having a sexual relationship with another male, and would like to try **** intercourse with a male, both as a top and a bottom. Trouble is, I've never actually met a man that interested me sexually! Could it happen? I think so. Sex is very important to me, and if the only potential partner I had was male, well, I'd probably enter a homosexual relationship.

To me, gender is more a matter of mind than biology. In the womb, early in gestation, males and females are virtually identical when it comes to body parts. That I'm male seems more a chance of nature than a plan. What's really important is not body parts, but emotional connection. If a man and a man, or a woman and woman, have that rare connection that leads to love of various type, so what? How does that harm either person, or anyone else for that matter?

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