Thanks for your replies. I just don't know what to do, I feel like I am living on a different planet to everyone else. There are just so many things that confuse me and I don't understand. I don't know how others see me, I know generally people see me as laid back and nice. I do have difficuly in showing emotions and can't cope in social situations. Most of the time I am invisible to others and not noticed. I can talk at times in comfortable situations and I try my best. Anyway, in the last couple of weeks this woman that I had seen, has contacted me twice and both times asked to meet up with me then later called it off. Also this appears to be something that happens regularly to me in any relationship that I try. She only seems to contact me when she feels like it and ignores me the rest of the time. This is turning out just the same as all other relationships I try??? It's a never ending cycle. Eventually she will forget about me or find someone else. Also at times when we are talking, she says things I just don't understand. I usually end up saying the wrong thing, how do you answer something that makes no sense?? Last time we spoke on the phone when she could be bothered contacting me, she said things about involving another woman in a sexual context. What do you say?? So I said "What?". Then she went on about basically having a threesome, I asked if that was what she wanted and she said yes. "?" Then she asked me how much I was willing to pay for sex. I thought she meant to pay her and I said I wasn't going to do that, then when she explained to pay another woman for sex, I still said I wouldn't do that. Why ask these sort of things? Is that normal? Eventually it transpired she wanted to know if I was faithful. Why do it in this way? I'm completely honest with everyone and I treat everyone the same way as I would want to be treated myself. Why would she only contact me when it suits her? I try to say hello and get ignored. The same way all women seem to treat me? At least I have manners and speak back to people. Why the devious questions?