I can't even begin to get my head around this...
I even preempt what people may want of me and try and do that!
I don't know why or where it came from, i didn't even realise I did it for a long time! But I have no idea how to stop... I would have to recognise it when it's happening and I am not sure I could...

I look at other people sticking up for their own rights and no one bats an eyelid so it is OKAY.... And it is RIGHT.... It's just about learning how I should think