I think 1914sierra makes a great point. It might be time consuming ad take some effort, but that's what we all had to do when looking for the right fit with a T. I know I did! There was a time when I had 1-hour face to face meetings with 5 therapists before I selected one. It really is worth finding a better fit because being with the wrong therapist can do a lot of damage. Been there and done that as well!