Hey all, so I'm wondering if what I have is common with all borderlines... I know that we all have issues with relationships for the most part, and I am the stereotypical intense at the beginning, unstable after a couple days, almost like the movie Fatal Attraction with Glenn Close. I'm wondering if after somebody says something that REALLY upsets you, like really gets under your skin, do any of you go out on an all-out war almost and just attempt to destroy the other person emotionally? Like I will use the worst thing I can find about somebody and then basically stab them with it. For example, if I know somebody was in an abusive relationship with their father, and they make me feel like *****, I'll say something like "Well, look! You're turning into your father! Abusive and selfish." Or "Wow, maybe your father should've just killed you when he had the chance." I know it's absolutely HORRIBLE, but they just kinda come out... Almost like I want them to feel the same kind of pain I feel they caused me. I'll use anything I can throw at them as ammunition, and it's extremely bad because I can't have a relationship for more than 5 days without getting upset and snapping.... If anyone has this symptom, can you please give me some tips on how to help it? I'm honestly struggling so hard with this and it's like I'm always ready to blow.. :/ Thank you.