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Originally Posted by Akama
We feel what we feel, should or not. We don't control our feelings, only how we act on them.
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I am well aware of that. I was not trying to tell the OP to change his feelings; I think you are taking my word choice much too literally.
I was trying to say to the OP that there was another way to view the Ts unwillingness to agree have a hypothetical chat with him in public, so that he may choose a more positive course of action than an automatic assumption of rejection--which he states would lead to him terminating.