Nineteen years old is awfully young for anyone to saddle themselves with a partner who seems satisfied to sit on their bum while everyone else takes care of business. It sounds as if he's not even trying to pull his own weight around the home, which is not a good sign.

If you find a place of your own, you'll find out soon enough if this relationship has any future. You may not be able to afford the beautiful home you dream of, but few people can at age 19.

One thing is sure, as long as your boyfriend doesn't even have to cross the street to get your attention and care, he'll never get his bum off the couch.

I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds as if you're in great danger of ending up in a co-dependent relationship that allows him to remain workless, sorry for himself and dependent while you work your tail off trying to get ahead.

It's time for you to take a good look at your life and to do whatever is best for you.