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Originally Posted by Little Jay
I'm the one that has been having to apply and search for jobs for him, while he sits on his bum all day doing nothing useful or productive.
I used to have my own house that I rented with a housemate. I loved it. She got a boyfriend and moved in with him, but my boyfriend still had no job so I had to leave my lovely house and move in with him and his parents. I thought it would be temporary, he was meant to find a job, we'd save then
Is it wrong and shallow of me to doubt our relationship based on this? I just don't want to scrape by pay check to pay check every month. He is so irresponsible with money and spends everything as he gets it.
I just don't know if I should think of my future, or wait around in a hope that he'll sort things out 
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Not so certain it's his age. It could be Him! He may never change. And as much as you may care for him, on a deep level, sometimes, love isn't enough to make a relationship work. It does take two Equals, working together, there's the responsibility factor then there's love.
How this has been between you, may be a good glimpse into your future together.
He may never change. That's a reality to factor in, when sorting through your decision.