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Old Jul 15, 2014, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted by InRealLife45 View Post
i agree about the experience thing and here I will reiterate- practically all of their masters level providers are brand new providers. its bc theyre just starting out and are at an agency thats forcing them to accept my ****** medicare insurance, and the ones worth their salt know to avoid it like the plague.
Generally speaking, I also see the value of a T with experience over a less experienced T (higher degrees, in my experience, don't determine a better T...although I have had some excellent and very caring Ts with PhDs).

However, in your situation, I think you should consider if you are gaining much of anything from the experienced T you have right now? She has been cold and distant with you since your rupture (to put it mildly). Her experience has not made her a better T for you!

Perhaps consider the value of meeting with some less experienced (even male) Ts and see if you feel comfortable with any of them. If your only other option vs. your current T is a possibly warmer, more positive and caring T (albeit less experienced), consider what you really have to lose over your current situation?
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