I am not sure where in South Africa you are or your family financial situation. If you think finances may be a problem maybe you could discuss that with your mom, she may be able to make a plan, for example going to a University counseling program with interns or something like that. My son is in therapy but I have friends who cannot afford therapy for their kids even though the school has recommended they see a psychologist. Your school counselor may know of different options though. Don't give up, speak to your mom again if you are able.