Most people are very resistant to change no matter how big or small the issue may be.
You seem to be open to change but are confused about what is right and wrong. What makes something right or wrong changes with time and your views about these issues also changes as you grow and mature throughout your life.
Always remember that a decision you made yesterday would be based on the information available to you at the time, so it was most likely correct. However tomorrow you may discover new information which forces you to change your opinion or reverse a decision. The willingness to accept the new solution to the original problem is a definite sign of maturity and intelligent thinking. You should not be confused about changing your mind when this happens.
I make mistakes all the time and someone could very well point out errors in my post here, if they do I will listen to what is said and change my mind if necessary. I have no reason to be confused unless I am missing some vital information.
I think you are ahead of the game so far and should not be so hard on yourself.
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