In my case, the billing person is his wife and it bothers me deeply for two reasons. First, we have mutual acquaintances. Second, much of what I have been talking about for the last two months or so are my difficulties around my feelings for HIM. His ****ing wife having access to that stuff is hugely upsetting.

Between stuff that happened in the last couple of months with him really withdrawing emotionally and now this have me thinking now that on some subconscious level he wants me to quit.