Granted ive only gone once to my t,but he said i was assuming a lot. I said you didnt notice how tall i was when we first met? He said he did notice,but the assumption is on that i thought he would think negative things about me because of that. Which kind of made sense.

Im very social phobic as well,if i have to go out i try to go out late at night. My gfs daughters are always bringing strangers in the house and it drives me crazy. I hide in my room til they leave. It takes me months and months to trust new people. But when that finally happens they are accepted and i can not look at them as strangers. Leaving the house is always a big deal and is very hard for me as well.

Hope this helps so you know you arnt alone as i feel that way a lot,but a lot less than i used to since i found this site.