I cant trust my friends to talk with them about this stuff they dont understand so much but I do have some people I talk to and I do talk to you people on here.I need to get a therapist but the one we could afford who is in range is a male and I dont think I would feel so comfortable because some of the things I would like to talk about would be best understood by a woman.not that I have anything against male therapists i just need a female one to understand some of my problems and it would be uncomfortable for me to talk them out with a guy. but that is why I come on here and spill it all out.