This is baffling to me. If my T ever told his wife (assuming he has one) the slightest detail I had said, it would be a breach of confidentiality. I could not get past a thing like that. Even imagining it makes me absolutely furious. Maybe this is because it is impossible for me to imagine people talking about me in positive terms - I don't know. But I think it is mostly because I have learnt to trust that T's office is an absolutely secure place, and if he were to take what I've said outside that office it would pretty much invalidate the whole therapy thing.

So if anything, I think mkac is remarkably restrained in her reactions.