I am glad you are looking for different T. This is exactly opposite of what T should do be supportive, encouraging etc.
This is behaviour that I would never tolerate my T guilt tripping me... never!
I also think client should be able to cancel session without having to explain why. My Ts rules are that as long as I cancel 24h before hand I am fine. If I cancel after that I pay for the session. Clear that is and fine with me