You have to start loving yourself, disorder and all. If you can;'t love yourself, just the way you are, how can you have intimacy with someone? Just be who you are, let it all hang out. What is the worse that can happen? I'll tell you: he freaks out and runs for the door...so what? Do you really even want to be with a guy who can't handle your extreme moods? NO!

So just let it out. I personally find it VERY HOT when a woman is self-confident and not afraid to show her weaknesses and short-comings.

And it is not like all this stuff has to come up on the first date. You can just talk a little and get to know each other. And if it DOES come up, be nonchalant about it. Like, "oh yeah, I have bipolar disorder, hahaha, hope that doesn't freak you out honey!"