So I have this friend, and he comes over to my house every single day, uninvited. Now, I enjoy hanging out sometimes, but this is over kill, and he eats at our house( I live with a friend) all the time as well. I cant afford this. If I'm cooking myself dinner, its unavoidable that Im expected to cook for everyone, and when I don't offer all the time its like they think Im being rude. He's also made a habit of eating food off of my plate! Ive even told him not to, and what he think hes doing, but he doesnt get it! I need time alone. I do not like being around people every single day, (my room mate and I have different schedules which works out well.) So, how do I get some personal space from this guy? Ive dropped hints, he doesn't get it. My room mates gone most of the time he's here so she doesn't care. I feel like I'm getting walked on. I've resorted to locking the door and pretending I'm not home on occasion, because if I don't answer he'll call me to see where I am( I dont pick up), or resort to coming over 2-3 times to knock on the door in one day, until I answer the door. I don't know how to handle this. Its very clear that we are nothing more than friends, so I dont think thats an issue here.
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