Thread: just wondering
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Old Jul 16, 2014, 06:00 AM
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granite, you did great. i'd probably chat a little bit too on the way in but not sure if i'd ask many questions.

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Originally Posted by someone321 View Post
I'm glad that it worked for you well
I cannot meet my T when I go into a session as I'm the last client but I see her often at the train station as her train goes just 3min after mine from the same platform... I've realized though that she ignores me, I don't know if in purpose but she never even looks in my direction and always chooses the weird path to avoid passing next to me. There is an escalator and I am usually on a top of it waiting for my H, but my T still manages to pretend that she absolutely doesn't see me... Only once, after really terrible session she saw me and smiled in my direction, as my train was already on the platform I smiled back and went into the train. Since then my T never comes to the platform before my train leaves
i think Ts legally can't acknowledge clients in public unless the client first acknowledges them so as not to break the client's confidentiality in front of others. the problem is Ts don't tell you about this so if you don't know and run into your T they might be acting weird and avoiding you and you don't know why. i had this happen with a T intern i saw a few times. i thought she was rejecting me when she pretended not to see me. of course i saw her before she turned away and i knew she'd seen me. i had no idea of the policy. i don't think i went back after that but she was terrible anyways.
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