I think I am already starting to resent him a bit. I look at him sat doing nothing after I've been working all day and it makes me so mad. I just don't know what I can say or do to make him sort things out. He tells me he is trying and that it's getting him down, he just wants constant sympathy but I can't bring myself to give it to him any more because I am starting to feel like he brings it all on himself. I know how rough the job market is, but he could have stayed in college and have just a year left until he could be a fully qualified plumber. He could have worked for himself then if he couldn't find a job. It just seems like he doesn't really want to work even though he says he does.