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When we are unhappy with another person/people we call them names - selfish, greedy, egotistical, mean, jerk and so on. Kori I do not doubt for one minute that you are unhappy with the work experience.
Yes, I am talking about one of my experiences because I empathize with you not because I am trying to be selfish. It totally sucks to not feel part of a team. I still go through this at work as well. I'm very different and like that about myself...but I do not always fit into the group. I have learned to understand that about myself.
I also understand about meeting "good people" - I have been betrayed and let down more times than I can count - but each of those relationships had some type of meaning - they were not all bad.
I hope you feel loved and accepted. I also hope you understand all the very good things about yourself. The right people will gravitate toward you.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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