Hi perpetuum, I agree with both glok and gayleggg. Sounds like she is depending on you for support and understanding which is great for her to have someone like you in her life. But other than that she is not making any commitments or promises to you. What are you getting out of this relationship? It is good she is seeing a shrink but stopping her meds on her own is not! I understand you not wanting to just up and leave her, but unless she makes some big changes that is what she will do to you. She can't keep blaming her past on her behavior today. I hope things work out for you and that she gets better for her own good. If she says she is doing it for you forget it because the first time she gets upset it will be all your fault. She needs to do it for her.