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Originally Posted by Astriferous
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I'm at a loss at what I should do. Normally, I would just confront her about it and ask her if she was trying to avoid my emotional baggage, but I'm afraid that I might come off as attacking her, and I'd hate to ruin my friendship with her. She's saved my life; I can't imagine my life without her. Do any of you have advice on what I should do?
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Yeah, I can see how asking her, if she's trying to avoid your emotional baggage, could create an argument. It's 'mind reading' mentality.
It's better to address, the fact, that you are feeling distant since the argument over swimming. You are feeling a little...(fill in the feeling), because you are afraid of losing her in your life. And then ask, if it's something she'd like to talk about?