I was diagnosed at 23 bi polar 2. I used to change jobs, careers, boyfriend, girlfriends, homes, and states like people change their clothes. In my thirties I realized I had no resume or relationship in my life to speak of. Everything I ever really wanted I didn't have. If I knew then what I know now and I had a partner whom I loved, I would personally get married and love unconditionally. I would support their dreams and aspirations and they would support mine as an individual as well as ours as a couple. I would know I am a challenge and that life throws speed bumps our way and together we can ride over them. I would know that we will be stronger as a couple and as individuals as we overcome these obstacles. I would be sure that I knew that my partner is never the enemy and not to let finances cause friction. Never go to bed angry. Also say I love you when they leave because you don't know if you will see them again. I would remember to appreciate what I have ever day. The simplest things, when they are gone, are the ones I would miss the most. ( This is a combination of my grandparents advice 65 years of marriage. My parents 30 years. Me finally 8 years and counting God bless you in all you choose to do in this life!