I agree! RUN, DON'T WALK, RUN!!! He won't get help because "He doesn't have a problem. It's YOU, all YOU." Unless and until HE can admit it's HIM & HIS problem, there is NO WAY to fix him! As long as he can blame you and stay in denial that he has issues, you'll spend the rest of your life with him trying to prove yourself "worthy" and he'll have no reason to work on himself! Been there, done that, will never do that again! You need someone who is secure enough with himself, to allow you to be yourself! Otherwise, you'll just be living to "please" someone else entirely and without having any pleasure of your own. I wish you the best!