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Originally Posted by Hellion
Umm...why was the therapist in your chair, and what was the deal with the hand holding in the first place? The whole thing just seems strange and I don't understand how it would have been part of therapy.
Also from the sound of it she was getting pretty touchy/feely herself being in your chair and all so why she'd flip out over you accidentally touching her boob when shes the one in your chair holding hands with you I don't get....
I personally might look for a new therapist.
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Originally Posted by freefallin
I agree. What is the entire deal with the scenario to begin with?
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A few minutes before the end of session I asked her to sit by me on the couch and hold my hand, so she did (and I put my head on her shoulder.) It's not something we do every session, but still fairly frequently. The touch is greatly reduced from what it used to be (she used to hold me for the whole session, back when she still liked me) now we just hold hands if I'm feeling sad, but she doesn't always say yes when I ask. Dunno why the flip out over the boob graze. Prolly a lot to do with why she popped up a year into things with the "A frame hug" insisting she had always hugged me that way (a lie) saying that our stomachs and breasts were "sexual" and should never touch. I can only assume she was told that the way she was holding me before was inappropriate and so instituted stricter touch boundaries (which I rejected) and didnt let her hold me anymore, not that she wanted to anyway.
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And yea, I agree-we need a "what a boob" button, lol.